What to say to your girlfriend A review of the facts
You should start asking her about the things she likes or dislikes, her obsession, her nightmares, and her discomfiting incidents of life. When she talks, be a part of the conversation by asking random questions to make her feel that you are interested in her thoughts and feelings. However, never give your fixed opinion about any past experience. First try to understand her, and then ask relative questions to support her feelings. After you ask questions about her, talk about yourself, how she feels about you?.